Thursday 15 February 2018

Year C. 1st Term. Lesson 6. Parable Series: The Pharisee and the Tax collector praying



Scripture: for teacher background:  Luke 18:9-14

Making contact:

Stand against a wall and explain to the children that you are measuring by marking on the wall how good people are.
 Ask them where they would make a mark (like measuring how tall people are) to show how good someone like Mother Theresa, Nelson Mandela etc. is or was. 

Then ask where they would rate themselves and you the teacher. Use examples they know. Ask them where the mark would be for a thief or a murderer.

Now imagine that the mark for God is at the ceiling.
He is perfect and never ever sins. So neither Mother Theresa nor the murderer is anywhere near as good as God.

Mother Theresa might be better than a murderer, but she falls very far short of God and she needs God’s forgiveness and cleansing just as much as the murderer does.

In today’s parable, Jesus teaches us these things.

Another way you could introduce this is to tell the children that a swimming pool is empty and need to be filled. 
Which person is better the one using a teaspoon or the one using a cup? 
Both are hugely inadequate.

 That’s how we are with God. The one using a cup should not laugh at the one using a teaspoon. They both need a hosepipe!

At some stage you might need to explain what tax is and what kind of people tax collectors were in Jesus day. Remind the children of Zachaeus.


 Exploration:

Jesus told a parable of how 2 very different people prayed at the temple one day. 

He said that a very religious, holy looking Pharisee swaggered up the temple steps and proudly told God how holy and wonderful he was.

 He listed all the good things he did and then he turned around and scornfully looked down his nose at a man crouching at the back, beating himself and crying. 

He said loudly and arrogantly: “AND I THANK YOU OH GOD, THAT I AM NOT LIKE THAT MAN OVER THERE!” 

He probably even wished that people like him weren’t allowed at the temple – after all, it was a place for clean and special, holy men like he. 

I bet he was the kind of person that told children to get lost.

The other man was the opposite. He stood far away, not even daring to go anywhere near.
He was a rotter and he knew it.

 He didn’t even look up to pray. All he could pray was “God, be merciful to me, a sinner.”

Listen to this little rhyme someone wrote about this parable:

Two men went to pray
O rather say
One went to brag
The other went to pray.

Which man REALLY prayed?

Jesus said that the sinner,- the tax collector went home with his relationship right with God. He had made peace with God. 
He had humbled himself and confessed his sin. 

The Pharisee who was bragging was not right with God and his prayer achieved NOTHING!

It certainly didn’t please God. He wasn’t even really praying. He was showing off. God does not listen to prayers like that.

Application

Loving God and being a Christian can lead us to thinking that we are better than others – a kind of “I am so much holier than you.”  

We mustn’t be so sure of our own goodness that we think other people are terrible and we are so special and wonderful. 

We need to be careful that our faith and our religion don’t make us like the Pharisee. Jesus often spoke against this kind of attitude. He called them HYPOCRITES.

Jesus warned that people who make themselves great would be humbled. 

If you are too sure of your own goodness – watch out!
 We must be careful of being super religious and unloving people. We are sinners who need God to forgive us and help us through each day.

Saying to ourselves before a contest or something: “I am okay! I am great! Nothing is too hard for me to conquer if I believe in myself. Everyone will see how good I am! “…Is not the right way!

 We need to be HONEST and say: “God is great and He is with me and will help me. May He be glorified in my life.”

Another thing is that we think God only loves us if we are good. 
That’s why the Pharisee thought he was so wonderful and the tax collector thought he was so terrible. 
But they were both wrong in how they thought God viewed them. 

The Pharisee thought God adored him and the tax collector thought God hated him. God loves us unconditionally. He doesn’t love or like our sin. He hates it, but He loves US.

For the smaller children, you need to press this point – that God loves them even when they are naughty, although He doesn’t like what they do. 

Even tiny children have the idea that their parents love them only when they are good. It’s a point we need to repeat week after week. 

God loves us all the time, even when we are bad like that tax collector. But He doesn’t like what we do and we need to say sorry like the tax collector did.

Challenge to Mission

If we know anyone who is feeling a failure and feeling terrible, we should tell them this parable and tell them that God prefers honesty and hates hypocrisy.

 Let’s encourage people and tell them that God really loves them and they can come to Him as they are and find forgiveness and help. Let’s be humble and honest people.

 Extra
Suggest the older teens watch the movie: “Emperor’s Club” which is a thought-provoking movie on this theme.

Consolidation

A worksheet – The children must write correct sentences underneath the wrong ones. The pictures need to be coloured in. Use arrogant colours for the Pharisee and humble colours for the tax collector.

 Memory Verse

For all who make themselves great will be humbled, but all who humble themselves will be made great.” Luke 18:14








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